The minute i feel im feeling better.. I get a text. He wants to be friends but needs time apart to “heal” cause he does want to be friends.

Im sorry but it is impossible. He and i will never and can never be just friends. We can try to pretend but our history is too long. A relationship of 4 years cannot change to just friends and no feelings.. I feel like i want him back. But he will not take me back…….